Deficiencies of the Heart

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Within hours of yet another celebrity dying too soon and too young from an overdose of drugs, actor Jim Carrey tweeted:

“Dear Philip, a beautiful beautiful soul.
For the most sensitive among us the noise can be too much.
Bless your heart.”

What struck me was not how only a few syllables can be eloquent and meaningful, so personal yet universal,
but that it contained a blessing.

A blessing.  Imagine that. So old fashioned and unexpected.

Imagine how much difference something so simple can make in a life, within a sorrowing and empty heart.

We have closed our hearts to receiving blessing and we have closed our mouths to giving blessing.
We ignore the sacred life we have been given; we abuse the temples of our bodies in which we dwell.
We turn away from Him who made our hearts beat to begin with.

If there is no blessing in our lives from a power greater than us, from our Father to His children, from one hurting person to another, then our hearts remain hollow.
We fill those vacant spaces with whatever seems handy at the moment, and for too too many, the fastest is a chemical filling.  It feels so right — for a moment or two.
And then it is gone, and too often, so are we.

But blessings from a heart, to a heart:
everlasting, self perpetuating,
filling and pulsing out to refill again.
Eventually when hearts are stilled,
they will not cease to be
emptied of blessing.
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4 thoughts on “Deficiencies of the Heart

  1. So beautiful, Emily.
    I’ve been lucky–within my community circle, blessings come often. I was going to say, “are common” but they are uncommon in their grace and kindness. Good on Jim Carrey.

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  2. Speaking as a RC Christian, I remember one of the exhilirating, freeing truths that we were told during Vatican II was that, “We are The Church”! We were reminded that our Baptism into the Kingdom gave us that right, as well as the privileges and responsibilities that went with it. To most of us that meant that we, too, could invoke Our Father’s blessings on each other; that the holy rite of Blessing was no longer confined to the clergy.

    It is painful for us to admit that, at times, we do fill the empty places in our hearts with hateful, hurtful things — things that not only damage ourselves but others. A case in point is the most recent death of yet another public celebrity, Philip Seymour Hoffman. This man was obviously suffering from a torment and brokenness that drove him back to using drugs after having been ‘clean’ for some time.

    I salute Jim Carrey for his beautiful, profound insight about ‘the noise can be too much,’ and his final blessing to his friend. In my heart, I second that blessing and pray that Mr. Hoffman is finally at peace.

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  3. You are so right. We forget that even atheists like to receive a blessing. The scripture says, that spouses are a blessing, children are blessings, parents are blessings, and friends like water on a hot day can be such a blessing. You have inspired me once again. I am going to work on closing my emails with “Blessings” or “You are a blessing in my life” or “May our Lord bless you today” or something like that to encourage even with a salutation.

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