Choose Joy

National Geographic photo of the day--Outer Hebrides Scotland

I can grumble with the best of the them. There can be camaraderie in shared grumbling, as well as an exponential increase in dissatisfaction as everyone shares their misery. Some relationships are based on collaborative cynicism, dark humor and just plain complaining. Whole TV series and movies have featured this approach to life– i.e. “House”.

But I know better. I’ve seen where grousing leads and I feel it aching in my bones when I’m steeped in it. The sky is grayer, the clouds are thicker, the night is darker–on and on to its overwhelming suffocating conclusion.

I have the privilege to choose joy, to turn away from the bleak. I can find the single ray of sun and stand in it, absorbing and equipping myself to be radiant when others need it more than me. It is not putting on a “happy face” — instead joy adopts me, holds me close in the tough times and won’t abandon me. Though at times joy may be temporarily behind a cloud, I know it is there even when I can’t see it.

It is mine to choose because joy has chosen me.

3 thoughts on “Choose Joy

  1. Emily, I am reading a new devotional given to me at Christmas, called Choosing Joy by Angela Thomas. I thought it was interesting you would choose to write on Joy too. I have thoroughly enjoyed the interaction of the book and encourage others to get it too…we do have a choice to choose Joy and we are encouraged when we do!

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  2. I love Paul’s “fruits of the spirit” in Galatians, and try to remain ever mindful of them: “love, JOY, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness and self control.”
    I can grouse with the best of them–the old cynical newspaperman will always be one of my six different personalities–but I don’t stay stuck in grousing and cynicism, or try not to. It does feel so much better to be fruitful in the spirit in those nine ways, and undoubtedly is better at winning friends and influencing people and being a witness to the good Lord’s endless love and grace.

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